Happy XXX-Mas to you, John!

It is simply like winning the lottery. It happens but not often. My sister has been married for 24 years and she and her husband have had sex 3 – 7 times a week since the day they started dating 25 years ago. Finding the right person early in life can be a key I think. They both say they have been entirely faithful. Neither have any addictions or mental illnesses that put pressure on their fidelity. BOTH parties have worked very very hard on themselves and the relationship. They are very unselfish people. They have a wonderful balance of activities they do together and seperately. They are not in debt so there is no worry on the financial end and I think that helps. Early on they made material sacrifices so they would not have any financial pressure. If one is seriously worried about anything major it decreases the libido, I think. She and he work out regulary and both are height/weight healthy. Not prefect but good enough. Their house is clean and comfortable. They do nice things for each other after 22 years. Really nice gestures. They laugh at everything. They talk to each other. They have the same belief system in politics and religion. They are educated and both read. They do not watch a lot of television. They eat the same diet. I could go on but those are some of the reasons I think my sister and her husband have an incredible sex life. They just left for Mexico for their own private “sex holiday”. Two middle-aged Texans and I swear it will be hotter than most. I envy them but I am very happy for my sister. At least I do not have to hear her complain like she does me. She got the seratonin in this family and that is okay. I am looking forward to seeing what happens in the next life…..

Merry Christmas.