Comments on: R.I.P. http://johnrlong.com/2008/11/18/rip/ I just blather on and on about stuff that interests me, mostly politics and sex and sometimes movies and art. Sun, 19 Jun 2011 14:42:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1 By: westika http://johnrlong.com/2008/11/18/rip/#comment-573 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:13:45 +0000 http://www.johnrlong.com/?p=1118#comment-573 I said some of this on a response to a comment on my blog, but it makes more sense here:

The ways people affect each other are, I think, the “prayers.” The way Craig affected my life was at the time not really defined or definable. But now, I see my few moments with him as part of a larger story. Everyone’s Craig stories are different because we all only know who he was to us individually. He was always so nice to me when I was sitting alone at his bar writing. He had a way of pumping me up in a non-intrusive way so I could get in that just-right writing zone. As far as I know, Craig didn’t necessarily listen to the Wednesday night poetry at Galileo’s with much interest, but I always noticed him listening when I read. He was always complimentary and caring. He bought me two glasses of wine when my cat died and I was sad. He was a kind of presence that reassured, and I’m glad to have that as part of my story.

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By: raven http://johnrlong.com/2008/11/18/rip/#comment-572 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:14:06 +0000 http://www.johnrlong.com/?p=1118#comment-572 “What prayers can the living say for the dead?”

Réquiem ætérnam dona ei Dómine; et lux perpétua lúceat ei. Requiéscat in pace. Amen.

(Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.)

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