When my children were small enough to be exchanging valentines in their grade school classes, I started handing out the “penny dreadfuls” to random people. Both my children are now in their mid 30s.

It’s the most fun I have all year, excepting the grandkids on Christmas morning.

I’m doing it again today. I’ve already hit my three favorite coffee spots, the Red Cup, Will’s and Starbucks at Nichols Hills Plaza.

This year, I sent a select few folks an email valentine. This especially for those who live out of town.

It’s a “random act of kindness” kind of event for me. The reaction I get from strangers and friends alike is very positive.

From my perspective, there’s plenty of hate and angst in the world but a deficit of kindness and love. There are far more wonderful people in the world than there are complete jerks and sociopathic criminals, but the latter get all the press.

Too bad.

I strongly urge you to do something really nice for yourself and go out and be nice to someone you don’t even know. Naw, I ain’t solving world hunger or finding a cure for cancer and I know that. It’s just fun.

Maybe you’ll make someone’s day. Maybe you’ll give someone hope. Maybe you’ll have no effect on the world at all other than improve your own mood.

That’s enough to make it worth it.

If you’re a Christian, chalk it up to “love thy neighbor” and feel your closeness to your Creator.

All I really know is that it makes me feel good.

I love you. A whole big bunch of you. Not just the girly girls I flirt with, either.

If you see me today, don’t be shy: demand a heart sticker for your lapel. I’ve got one just for you.

Happy Valentine’s Day.