I absolutely LOVE your blog, MCARP and Nina’s.    The three of you have been writing some really good stuff on love and relationships.    It’s so interesting that all three of you say the same thing!    Men want love, women want love, so what’s the problem?    Why can’t anyone find it?       Why is love the hardest, most elusive thing to grasp?   

It cracks me up that we’re all so fucked up.   You men say women are impossible.  We women say you men are impossible.    Yet when we reveal the depths of our despair over not having it, we’re all the same.   You would think it would be easier to achieve.

It makes me wonder if we all love being miserable more than we love being happy.    Maybe being miserable is more comfortable.    Maybe love is too easy and therefore not as much fun.  

If we all found the loves of our lives, what would we have to bitch about?    If we had everything we want in another person, how could we stand it?    No drama, no complaints, just pure happiness.    So boring! 

It’s so much more fun yearning for something we can’t have!    Isn’t it?

I don’t know who mcarp is and I kind of, sort of remember Nina.    I can’t wait to come back to OKC this summer and hang out with them!    I’m completely in love with mcarp’s mind.    I love Capricorns!   I “get” them.

I think the key to this love mystery is that we have become a people of “all about me”.    We’re afraid to be “all about them” because of the pain we fear it will bring.    I think about Mamaw and Pop Parrish, Jim and Dot, the two couples I have known in my life who really seem to have found the answer.    They are my goal.    Both couples seem to live in their own world of each other.   The husband and wife don’t question who gives more to the other, they simply give without reservation.     I like it.   I want it.   I will have it.

I love you, Big Brother.   I hope you find what you’re looking for.